Fr Graham Writes: 02nd August 2020

Fr Graham • August 1, 2020
When Jesus hears of the sad news of John the Baptist’s death, he “withdrew by boat to a lonely place” where He could be alone with His apostles and disciples. When we receive bad news maybe we withdraw into ourselves or find some comfort in something that might not do us any good. It might distract us for a while or even seem to alleviate the pain temporarily, but it doesn’t help us face the truth. There are different types of “being alone”: destructive and strengthening. Jesus doesn’t withdraw into self-pity; He wants to be alone to pray and get true perspective of what has happened and what it means. Jesus isn’t just upset; He is aware that now John has died the next stage of His Mission is about to start which will lead to His own death and His resurrection. No one else sees it the same way. The crowds still follow Him and do not respect His grief. The disciples try to protect Jesus, but they want Him for themselves, “send the people away”. Jesus’ response is both instructive and generous. He teaches His disciples and He begins this new phase of ministry - parables to more plain speaking. This “being alone” brings Jesus even closer to more people (5000+) and He fully satisfies their need, hunger and desire for truth. Jesus is looking towards the night when He will break bread for them again in the Kingdom of the Father. When we receive sad news how do we respond? Let us try to go to Jesus in that quiet place and be alone with Him to pray and discover how to respond in Christ. Jesus wants us to come to Him with our true selves. To be broken open and then He can perform miracles with us.
With my prayers for you each day. 

A Blessed Sunday. God bless you. 

Fr Graham

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