Message from Fr Graham
Webmaster • October 3, 2020
"Dear brother and sisters of OLQP,
I am so grateful for all the work our volunteers are doing each day to enable Mass to be publicly celebrated and I am so pleased to see more and more of you returning to Mass on Sundays or during the week. I am conscious that some of you are shielding and self-isolating for good reasons of vulnerability or age. That is the right thing to do and keep doing it. Some others may be nervous about returning because you haven’t been to Mass for some time and are not sure about the provisions we have in place. We have followed all the guidelines in every respect and have the Test and Trace system in place. Some of you with young families might be thinking that you can’t come back with your children as it is too dangerous for them or others. Do not worry there is space and the most vulnerable are shielding at home. So, if you can, I encourage you to come to Mass again. You will always be welcome. God bless you. Fr Graham”
He also writes:
"Every once in a while, we are amazed or overcome with the qualities of a person we meet. They might be intelligent, talented in music or sport, brave, beautiful, sincere – showing something of the virtues and the glory of God. Recently we have celebrated some saints that have made me stand back in wonder particularly St Thérèse and St Padre Pio. Their holiness is not because they were talented or intelligent but because of their faith in God and the grace they received from Jesus Christ changed their life. In the coming week we have St John Henry Newman, an outstanding intellect but a saint for his following of the “kindly light, amid the encircling gloom”. But, next Saturday (10th) a young man (aged 15y) is being beatified in Assisi. Carlo Acutis was an ordinary Italian young man who was gifted in computers and loved Jesus very much, especially in the Eucharist. His faith and love of God is humbling. He would go to Mass every day. His parents didn’t go to Mass at all. But he did. “To always be close to Jesus, that’s my life plan”. What a role model for young people, and us all, today. An unknown teenager whose testimony will last far longer than any celebrity or influencer, indeed his testimony lasts for ever. What did the people in today’s parable from Jesus do to the Son who came to receive the produce of the vineyard? “They seized him and through him out of the vineyard and killed him”. What did Carlo Acutis do whenever the Son (Jesus) came to him in the Eucharist? He would spend time before and after Mass adoring Him having received Him into his heart. Wow. Please read about him. Be inspired by him to love Jesus more especially in the Eucharist. Make Jesus your life plan. The inheritance He is waiting to give us is far more than we could steal from Him. With my prayer for you all every day. God bless you. Fr Graham
Please look at the newsletter as there is a lot of information about the coming week and upcoming events.

To tie in with our hosting of the Eucharistic Miracles Exhibition of Saint Carlo Acutis in the Parish Room at St Peter’s this autumn, we are planning a special day on Saturday 17th October , centred around Saint Carlo Acutis, with a FirstClass Relic. We are fortunate to have speaker Anna Johnstone, Guardian of the Relic and former Governess to the Acutis Family visiting our parish. Since 2017 Anna has given presentations on the life and spirituality of Saint Carlo Acutis, facilitated missions, and helped new Saint Carlo apostolates, across the UK. Anna is a British Catholic convert who read Theology at Cambridge. The day will include mass, prayer, veneration of the relic, adoration, exhibition and talks. You are welcome to all or part of the day. Tea/coffee available; please bring a packed lunch. Exhibition Dates: 17 October – 1 November 2026 Please help us spread the word by taking a poster and/or flyers. All are welcome

From our second reading: ‘Practise these things, and the God of peace will be with you.’ [Philippians 4:9] The phrase ‘the stone the builders rejected has become the cornerstone’ appears in Psalm 118, and in today’s Gospel, and in the Acts of the Apostles, (4:11). Occurring before, during, and after the life of Jesus suggests to me that it is one of the more meaningful descriptions of the Messiah, Jesus. The cornerstone of a building is the most important stone in a foundation; it sets the angles, alignment, and structural integrity of the entire building. All other parts of the building are placed in relation to the cornerstone. So, what is our relationship with Jesus as cornerstone? Jesus is our spiritual cornerstone, and our prayer life should be modelled on His. Jesus is our physical cornerstone and everything we do should be aligned to His actions. Jesus is our mental cornerstone, and our thoughts should mirror His thoughts. I find thinking like Jesus the hardest because Jesus showed us how to pray, and he showed us what to do, but he did not specifically tell us what to think. Fortunately, St. Paul is a help, he suggests that whatever is true, honourable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, anything excellent and anything worthy of praise, think about these things. Happy thinking and Blessings, Deacon Simon

Following his episcopal ordination, Bishop Stephen will celebrate a Mass of Welcome at Worth Abbey on Saturday 24 October at 11.00 am attended by representatives from the diocesan deaneries, parishes and schools. The Diocese is sending one coach to each deanery to enable people to travel easily to this event. The coach will have three pick-up points, St Catherine’s Littlehampton, English Martyrs, Goring-by-Sea and Holy Family Lancing (all with car parks in which to leave your car). This is an invitation to you. If you are able to come, please contact Anne Niven either with an email to emgoring@english-martyrs.co.uk or leave a message on the phone 01903 242624, with your name and telephone number. The first 52 replies will be those who go. A waiting list will be kept so that if anyone drops out the next person on the list will be invited to take a place.

Preparing for the Sacraments There will be instruction starting in the coming weeks for the sacraments of First Holy Communion and Confirmation. If you would like to express an interest at this stage or enquire (for you or your child), please speak to Deacon Simon or email the office: adurvalley@abdiocese.org.uk . First Holy Communion application forms are now available from the sacristy

WELCOME TO OUR PARISH On Satuday 17th October 2026 , our parish is hosting at St Peter’s: A Day With Saint Carlo Acutis. We are extremely fortunate to have speaker Anna Johnstone with us for the whole weekend, who set up www.ukmiracles.com in 2017. The website was launched as an information point designed to help bring Saint Carlo Acutis' International Exhibition of Eucharistic Miracles, and accompanying resources, to parishes and schools in the UK. Since 2024 this apostolate has also been making available a First Class Relic of Saint Carlo Acutis . Anna Johnstone is a family friend of the Acutis family, and the Governess, for three years, (2015-2018), to the brother and sister of Saint Carlo. Since 2017 Anna has given presentations on the life and spirituality of Saint Carlo Acutis, facilitated missions, and helped new Saint Carlo apostolates, across the UK. Anna is a British Catholic convert who read Theology at Cambridge. The visit on Saturday 17th October will mark the start of our parish hosting the Exhibition of Eucharistic Miracles. We are reaching out to other parishes, schools and universities. Please help us spread the word by taking a poster and/or flyers. All are welcome.

Last Friday’s parliamentary vote saw the Assisted Dying Bill defeated by 286 votes to 270. Archbishop John Sherrington thanked all who contacted their MPs and all who spoke up for the dignity of human life. He reminded us that compassion means accompanying those who suffer with care and solidarity, not encouraging an end to life.

Pope Leo appointed Fr Stephen Wang as sixth bishop of our Diocese on 2 July. In a video recorded recently for the Catholic Truth Society (CTS), Bishopelect Stephen offers a simple, practical introduction to prayer. “Prayer is wonderful,” he says, “prayer is so important, but prayer can be hard as well. How many times have people come up to me as a priest and said, ‘Father, I want to pray, but I don't know how to start. I don't know what to do, and I feel a bit stuck…’ “I remember the first time I prayed as an adult; I didn't really know what to do, but I was in my bedroom. I closed my door. I sat on the edge of my bed and… just talked to God and said something like, ‘Dear God, I'm not sure if you're there. I hope you're listening. These are the things on my heart, on my mind…’” “I encourage you, whatever way works for you in prayer, find it and stick to that. There aren't too many rules, but if you can find a little bit of quiet [or] silence, listening prayerfully to the Word of God… can be a great help to prayer.” Click here to see the talk in full: Bishop-Elect Stephen on prayer Or search for Catholic Truth Society on YouTube.

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