Fr. Graham Writes: 3rd April 2022
Webmaster • April 3, 2022
“There was something quite powerful during the Reconciliation Service in Rome when the Holy Father prayed for Russia and Ukraine to be consecrated to the Immaculate Heart of Mary. As solemn as the act of Consecration was, I was moved by watching the Pope go to confession. There is not one of us who hasn't sinned against God. Perhaps we might think it a weakness to have the need to go to confession to a priest?
But, the opposite is true. It is a sign of strength and maturity that we know our need of God's mercy. With St Paul we can say that we have not become perfect (yet), but we are "still running".
There are traps that we can fall into when we prepare for a good confession. The first is getting stuck. When we pray and ask the Holy Spirit to help us to know our sins we can feel so bad or sorry that we forget God's Mercy - which is always greater than our sin. Again, St Paul says, "I forget the past and strain ahead for what is to come". What is to come is being washed in the Mercy of God in the sacrament of reconciliation. Here is another trap: we can take God's Mercy for granted and minimise the damage of sin. So we can drift between crushing guilt (leading to self condemnation) or complacency (leading to a cycle of destruction). But, true sorrow brings us closer to Jesus and
reconciliation brings about gratitude. or did she sin again? We don't know.
Imagine the relief and joy of the forgiven woman caught in the act of sinning. Was she trapped in self-hatred or did she sin again? We don’t know. But, we can experience the same Mercy as she did in
the very simple act of confessing our sins to a priest. Jesus forgives through the priest. If has been a long time since your last confession, don' t worry. No one condemns but all are set free. "What
marvels the Lord worked for us, indeed we were glad".
With my daily prayers for you all each day especially the sick.
God bless you always.
Fr Graham”
Please join in our nine days of prayer, the first novena, between Ascension and Pentecost. Other prayers are here and here. O Holy Spirit, Divine Consoler! I adore you as my True God. I offer You my whole heart, and I render You heartfelt thanks for all the benefits You have bestowed upon the world. You are the author of all supernatural gifts and enriched the Blessed Virgin Mary, the Mother of God, with all favours. I ask you to visit me by Your grace and Your love, and grant me the favour I so earnestly seek… [state your request here]. O Holy Spirit, spirit of truth, come into our hearts: shed the brightness of your light on all nations, that they may be of one faith and pleasing to You. Amen.
Thursday 21 May 2026 , the Vigil of St Rita, marks a National Day of Prayer and Fasting for Life. Inspired by St John Paul II, everyone is invited to pray—through the Rosary, Mass, or Adoration—and to fast in whatever way they can. Offered for an end to abortion and euthanasia, the day encourages each person to make a meaningful sacrifice. This monthly initiative is organised by the Good Counsel Network. www.goodcounselnetwork.com .
On Wednesday 20 May at 7pm, all Catholics are invited to pray the Rosary for peace. Missio, together with other missionary societies, will be leading the Rosary online, with each group praying a decade. Anyone who wishes to join can do so via the link on the Missio website: missio.org.uk . If you prefer, you are of course welcome to pray the Rosary privately at the same time.
The work of bringing together the ten congregation of the six parishes of the Worthing Deanery into a single new parish continues. This work is not entrusted just to the clergy, rather all of us are invited to participate in shaping the new parish. A structure for the new parish has been proposed - https://www.catholicparishofworthingandlancing.co.uk/our-new-parish/ so please read about it and if you have any comments, please send them to me. The proposed structure contains a revolutionary development which is shared parish governance between Priests and People. The role of the newly formed Parish Leadership Team is ‘Shared governance and strategic leadership of the new Worthing parish’, and its composition is ‘Clergy and Lay Leaders’. The biggest challenge that I see with this new way of working is how can the ten congregations be unified into a new parish. Jesus wants us to be united in our prayer, our worship and our outreach to those in need, but we have become too comfortable and too insular. Our church is changing and we can either shape that change for a better future or do nothing and accept whatever fate befalls us. What are we to do? With my prayers. God bless you. Deacon Simon
The Collect of today's Mass reminds us of the "days of joy" in this Easter season. We might have forgotten the joy of Easter day after the Lenten fast. This joy sustains us. The first apostles and disciples must have felt abandoned by Jesus as He returned to the Father. But He said, "I will not leave you as orphans" and promised another Helper, the Spirit of Truth to be with them. They waited, not knowing for how long. After nine days they experienced the outpouring of the Holy Spirit. Their joy was complete and undiminished. This is how are we maintain our Easter joy and hold on to the good news of the resurrection. Joy is a fruit of the Holy Spirit, not a short-lived exuberance. We can be joyful disciples as we recall that Jesus is always with us, in us and by our side. As we wait for Him to manifest Himself to us again, we can pray, as the apostles prayed, a novena that we might experience the Holy Spirit in an equally powerful way and have their joy in the midst of trouble. Here are some novenas as well as the one listed in this newsletter. The people of Samaria heard the preaching and saw the miracles of Philip, but it was only after Peter and John came that they received the Holy Spirit through the laying on of hands. The Holy Spirit always unites us to the Body of Christ, the Church. It is fitting that the vigil of the Ascension of Jesus to Heaven is also the feast of Our Lady of Fatima. She who prayed with the Apostles and was already full of the Holy Spirit will intercede for us in these last days. May God bless you and grant you joy. Fr Graham
May is dedicated to the Blessed Virgin Mary, honouring her as the Mother of God and Queen of Heaven. We will crown her statue in our churches this weekend. We have a longstanding First Saturdays Devotion in our parish and it was good to see so many parishioners and visitors at the recent visit from the World Apostolate of Fatima, England & Wales, in March this year. They write... What is achieved by fulfilling the Five First Saturdays devotion? In the first instance we comply with the desire of Jesus to establish devotion to Mary’s Immaculate Heart, as revealed by Our Lady in her second apparition on 13th June 1917. She then went on to say, “I promise salvation to those who embrace it, and these souls will be loved by God, like flowers placed by me to adorn his throne.” When we fulfil the requirements for making this devotion, as revealed by Our Lady on 10th December 1925, we make reparation for the thorns of blasphemies and ingratitude which pierce Our Lady’s Immaculate Heart and by which she is offended. Our Lady then promises to assist those souls who make this devotion “at the hour of death with the graces necessary for salvation.” What a wonderful consolation, to know that at the moment of death when it is natural to feel a sense of apprehension, one need not fear because Our Lady will be there to assist with the graces needed to ensure eternal salvation! May God bless you and Our Lady pray for you. Fr Graham
Join us for a Table Top Sale in aid of the St Vincent de Paul Society (SVP) on Saturday 9th May at the former St Charles Borromeo Church, located at the junction of Ham Road and Chesswood Road in Worthing. Doors open at 10.00 a.m. There will be a wide variety of items for sale — bric-a-brac, clothes, books, and more. All proceeds will go to support the charitable work of the SVP. Please come along, find some bargains, and support a great cause!
The temporary base the SVP runs out of the former St Charles Borromeo Church needs more helpers. We need help with: • additional drivers - under 70 years old with licence category C. This would be on a rota x1/ month • repairing furniture - small repairs to donated furniture. • sorting of donations - kitchen goods, clothing, bedding etc. If you can help with any of these please contact: Rosaleen Murphy, St Catherine's - stcatherinessvp@gmail.com Sheila Padwick, St Michael's - TreasurerA010406@svp.org.uk Ann Olliver, St Peter's - PresidentA010406@svp.org.uk
Would you be interested in being a small group leader, refreshment maker or prayer minister at our diocesan Young Adult retreats? The Diocese of Arundel and Brighton are looking to run Young Adult retreat days for those aged 18-35 across the diocese. Each will be a day of Faith, Fellowship, Formation and Food! But we need your help...if you are aged 18+ and are interested in supporting these events, please email the Diocesan Youth Project Officer, Bex Driver E : bex.driver@abdiocese.org.uk
Saturday 18 July 12 noon – 4.15pm , Church of Our Lady of Consolation & St Francis, West Grinstead, RH13 8LT. A pilgrimage for people across our diocese - the day includes Holy Mass, a personal Consecration to Our Lady, the Glorious Mysteries of the Rosary, Exposition, Chaplet of Divine Mercy, Adoration and Benediction. There is no need to book, to find out more contact Linda C-Dominguez T:01273463463 or M:07944377252 or Jayne Lock M: 07816422851 or E: jayne.lock1@gmail.com . Please bring a packed lunch.