Fr. Graham Writes: 3rd April 2022

Webmaster • April 3, 2022
“There was something quite powerful during the Reconciliation Service in Rome when the Holy Father prayed for Russia and Ukraine to be consecrated to the Immaculate Heart of Mary. As solemn as the act of Consecration was, I was moved by watching the Pope go to confession. There is not one of us who hasn't sinned against God. Perhaps we might think it a weakness to have the need to go to confession to a priest?
But, the opposite is true. It is a sign of strength and maturity that we know our need of God's mercy. With St Paul we can say that we have not become perfect (yet), but we are "still running".
There are traps that we can fall into when we prepare for a good confession. The first is getting stuck. When we pray and ask the Holy Spirit to help us to know our sins we can feel so bad or sorry that we forget God's Mercy - which is always greater than our sin. Again, St Paul says, "I forget the past and strain ahead for what is to come". What is to come is being washed in the Mercy of God in the sacrament of reconciliation. Here is another trap: we can take God's Mercy for granted and minimise the damage of sin. So we can drift between crushing guilt (leading to self condemnation) or complacency (leading to a cycle of destruction). But, true sorrow brings us closer to Jesus and
reconciliation brings about gratitude. or did she sin again? We don't know.
Imagine the relief and joy of the forgiven woman caught in the act of sinning. Was she trapped in self-hatred or did she sin again? We don’t know. But, we can experience the same Mercy as she did in
the very simple act of confessing our sins to a priest. Jesus forgives through the priest. If has been a long time since your last confession, don' t worry. No one condemns but all are set free. "What
marvels the Lord worked for us, indeed we were glad".
With my daily prayers for you all each day especially the sick.

God bless you always. 
Fr Graham”
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In addition to the First Friday mass, celebrated for our collective Parish Prayer intentions, we now have two prayer groups on the First Friday of the month:  10.00am-11.00am Mothers Prayers, in the Parish Room at SP  4.00pm-5.00pm: Prayers for Peace, in the Divine Mercy Chapel at SP  Thank you to the organisers. All are welcome.
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All are welcome to come and hear Fr Dr Fadi Diab from St Andrew’s Church, Ramallah, for an evening exploring peace and justice in the Holy Land. Saturday 4 July, 8.15–10pm, Steyning Centre “Peace in the Middle East: An Impossible Dream? A Palestinian Christian Perspective” In partnership with Steyning for Peace and Friends of the Holy Land. Free admission (voluntary collection). Wheelchair accessible. Free parking at Fletcher’s Croft Car Park (BN44 3YB). Enquiries: Dr Roger Williamson – rjlmwilliamson@gmail.com | 01903 892989
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The Catechists would like to thank all those who helped in any way to make this a special year for our First Communion children. Father Graham for the Mass at St Peter's. The parents for their support throughout the preparation, the children who behaved so reverently and the families for their generous gifts to the catechists.
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By Webmaster June 21, 2026
Saturday 18 July 12 noon – 4.15pm ,  Church of Our Lady of Consolation & St Francis, West Grinstead, RH13 8LT. A pilgrimage for people across our diocese - the day includes Holy Mass, a personal Consecration to Our Lady, the Glorious Mysteries of the Rosary, Exposition, Chaplet of Divine Mercy, Adoration and Benediction. There is no need to book, to find out more contact Linda C-Dominguez T:01273463463 or M:07944377252. Please bring a packed lunch.
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Next Sunday, 21 June, we keep the Day for Life. This year’s theme, “The Wonder of the Child in the Womb,” invites us to pause in gratitude for the gift of new life. It also holds in prayer all parents who have experienced the loss of a child before birth, and the quiet grief that can follow. The bishops’ message and prayers are available at: www.dayforlife.org , if you would like to spend some time reflecting at home. There will be a second collection for the Day for Life Fund, which supports groups working to uphold the dignity of every human life. If you prefer, you can also donate online through the Day for Life website.
By Webmaster June 12, 2026
OLQP First Holy Communion: 7th June 2026 Congratulations to all our First Holy Communion children. There will be a parish celebration after the 9.00am mass at St Peter’s this Sunday 14th June, with cake and certificates. All are welcome.
By Webmaster June 12, 2026
Sat 13 OLQP Bible Film Group Sun 14 SP Parish Room, 10.00am: First Holy Communion Celebration Mon 15 Anniversary of Deacon Simon’s ordination Thur 18 SP Parish Room, 10.00am: Coffee pop-in Sat 20 OLQP Bible Film Group  Sun 21 2nd Collection: Day for Life