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Webmaster • Apr 26, 2024

Last Sunday afternoon I spent some time in A&E in Worthing suffering from swelling and discolouration in my right arm. The next few days I underwent tests and treatment at Worthing and Brighton hospitals.


After many tests the diagnosis is a DVT in the upper right arm / shoulder (subclavian vein). I avoided an operation as I have responded well to blood thinning injections. I am now on 3 months of medication with a referral to haematology to see how the clot disperses and as to its cause. The swelling and discolouration in my arm have reduced.


I wanted to let you know what has happened and ask for your prayers and patience now and as investigations proceed. I will try to slow down a bit and focus on the necessary things of priestly ministry. I think the Lord is asking me to spend more time with Him in prayer.


Thank you for your prayer, support and understanding.


With my prayer for you all.

Fr Graham.

By Webmaster 04 May, 2024
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By Webmaster 04 May, 2024
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By Webmaster 27 Apr, 2024
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By Webmaster 26 Apr, 2024
There are lots of feasts this coming week. The celebration of saints days helps us to persevere in our daily struggle to be holy and ask for their help. Our task is to remain not only close to Jesus but to live in Him, as He lives in us. This is what the saints did in whatever vocation God called them. They forgot themselves and allowed God to grow ever bigger in them by flowing with the direction of grace. They were authentic and real. It would have been easy to see that they were disciples of Jesus. Some people didn't believe that Saul was really a disciple. Barnabas speaks up for him by telling of Paul's bravery and the things that proved he was a disciple. I hope the same can be said of us. Our faith and love is not be "mere talk, but real and active". The others will know we are disciples. Living in Jesus and being part of the "Vine" means we have to be pruned by God. It involves a change and conversion. To live for God and not for ourselves. We can find more recent examples of young people who have tried to live this way. Their vocation stories are inspiring. In our prayer for vocations this week we pray especially for young people and the gift of discernment. To truly follow Jesus and be authentic. Sr Clare Crocket is such an amazing story. We can learn from her about conversion to Jesus in our choices and true joy. With my prayer for you all this Eastertide. God bless you.  Fr Graham
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Modern Slavery & Human Trafficking – Communities and Parishes Presentation, 29 June, 11am-1pm, Shoreham-by -Sea BN43 5WG. Join members of the Santa Marta Group for a presentation and discussion on topics including 'What is Modern Slavery and Human Trafficking?' With an introduction to the Santa Marta Group, and case examples. Contact Tessa Ricketts to find out more, or see poster in the church porch.
By Webmaster 14 Apr, 2024
You can watch the talk, ‘The New Eve’, given by Father Graham last Wednesday using this link: https://www.youtube.com/@ABCharismaticDSC/streams There were some connectivity and power issues on the night, but if you scroll to 13 minutes 50 seconds, you’ll see the talk in full. The next talk will be on ‘Salvation’, given by Deacon Phil Richardson, on Wednesday 17th April, 8.00pm. Click here for more information: https://www.abdiocese.org.uk/news/promise -father
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